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How To Flirt - The Best Advice From The Love Coach

A guy in a funny hat walked up to me at a bar the other week and told me I  “look bored” (which was true, since my friend was late and all I was surrounded by sports on TV). I could immediately tell that this boy was hooked on “The game” and that he had probably spent hundreds of dollars to go to seminars and learn how to pick up and seduce women in an efficient way. It\'s a trend at the moment… But is playing the game really the best 'How to flirt' advice?

One of the tricks the pick up artists use, is to look “special” – like wearing a funny hat or quirky sunnies. Another trick is to say something slightly rude, since this will trigger the girls to defend them selves, which means they suddenly spend energy on the man and try to win him over. Huh.

Men often ask me if manipulating and the tricks work, and I must admit they do. A while ago I wore cat ears to show my support for an AFL team (not that I know anything about it, but I like cats…) and I have never had so many people approach me. I think it was because I was so obviously inviting people to talk or comment.

The “hard to get” game works too when you flirt. If you don\'t call too soon or reply on texts too eagerly, you appear too “easy”. Mysterious and unpredictable behaviour works. Playing hard to get works. It\'s all because it makes our brains want it more when there\'s a shortage. It\'s built in us. It\'s human. It\'s inevitable. Girls run to boys like happy puppies if they have avoided them for a while (or just don\'t like them) and men love the challenging snobbish girls who don\'t want them. One client said he tested the girls. If they accepted to have sex with him too soon, they were “just not girl friend material”. He still slept with them though.

As a love coach I help people be strong, confident and happy, so they\'ll attract love without quick fixes and cool pick up lines. When you feel crazy good about yourself love can\'t stay away from you. How to flirt with success? Feel good from within. When you do that, you can add on some flirting tricks:

-  Mirror the person you talk to. Copy gestures and face movements, words and pace. It will make the person think you understand them. Do this smart and not too obvious though.

-  Touch. Today many people are scared to death of getting rejected and they avoid showing interest, out of fear of getting a “no”. A touch is a signal that it\'s ok.

- Girls, tilt your head a bit and play with your hair. That is a signal to the boys.

- Flatter and ask questions. We all love chatting about ourselves, and we love compliments even if we blush and feel uncomfortable when they are thrown at us. Nice words stick like tattoos.

-  Say something unexpected, beyond “what do you work with?”, which is still a question 80 per cent of men use.

-  Smile and be warm and open. Research show that we are more likely to contact a smiling person. Other studies have also shown that we prefer people who look straight at us. We think they are more attractive!

-  Be nice but say good bye after a while. Make them want to come back for more.

Funny hat or not, the main thing is that you actually say hello. Most singles never even start conversations with anyone outside their own group. They never get talked to either. I have super hot girl friends and the amount of men approaching them during an evening out is low. People today are just too shy and don\'t want too loose their faces and look dumb.

But believe me; if you take the risk you get the chance. All of the men or women you say hello to won\'t swoon and be the One. Some of them will be snotty and perhaps even cruel. But hey, learn from your mistakes; contact those who give you an encouraging smile and get up again. Everyone gets rejected, but how will you ever find the perfect person if you are a quitter?

How to flirt? Just do it!

Also check out www.howtoflirtadvice.com or www.whatdoguyswantadvice.com

Article Source: http://www.articlesbase.com/dating-articles/how-to-flirt-the-best-advice-from-the-love-coach-1920203.html

The Love Coach Carolin Dahlman. Check out my webpage www.coaching2love.com for contact details and more information.

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